Spanking by hand

A few days ago there was a spanking post and someone mentioned using a belt on their child.

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Spanking by hand

Question: There is some controversy over whether a parent should spank with his or her hand or with some other object, such as a belt or paddle. What do you recommend? Answer: I recommend a neutral object of some type. To those who disagree on this point, I'd encourage them to do what seems right to them. It is not a critical issue to me. The reason I suggest a switch or paddle is because the hand should be seen as an object of love—to hold, hug, pat and caress. However, if you're used to suddenly disciplining with the hand, your child may not know when he's about to be swatted and can develop a pattern of flinching when you suddenly scratch your head. This is not a problem if you take the time to get a neutral object. My mother always used a small switch, which could not do any permanent damage. But it stung enough to send a very clear message. One day when I had pushed her to the limit, she actually sent me to the backyard to cut my own instrument of punishment. I brought back a tiny little twig about seven inches long. She could not have generated anything more than a tickle with it.

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Spanking by hand

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The New Practical Reference Library. Archived from the original on 3 May Wright S v Williams Tyrer v. Does anyone else remember reading this. Please specify a reason for deleting this reply from the community. He is well loved and he knows it, he is very spoiled with mommys and daddys time. So far all of your posts have been very helpful. I don't know that there's anythin specific in the Bible to say which should be used etc, the book of Proverbs talks bout a rod. Follow us on. It may not display this or other websites correctly. Claire It is demoralizing to have a child strip naked to spank, and it is hard to judge the force of the spank if you use an object. By hand is the only way I'll consider spanking my kids I will not spank other people's kids under any circumstance when other methods have proven ineffective at discouraging behaviour that would otherwise be more dangerous than the spanking itself such as running out into the street or similiarly silly child actions. Show hidden low quality content. Pediatric Clinics of North America Review.

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Wright , 97, S. Go to page number Go to page number. The Society for Research in Child Development. Sometimes it would go to the point where it hurt, but that's when he got the idea. Example: running away from me while 9 moths pregnant into a parking lot. It's not spanking, and I won't spank her. Does that make sense? If the paddle comes out it means buisness as well as the one wieldin it. Debate Team spanking with anything other then your hand? When I was younger my dad took a belt to me once. What to Expect has thousands of open discussions happening each day. The term spanking broadly encompasses the use of either the hand or implement, the use of implements can also refer to the administration of more specific types of corporal punishment such as caning , paddling and slippering. You should upgrade or use an alternative browser.