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Aibu that I feel angry and upset that my ex has sleepovers knowing that my Lo's will no doubt be getting in bed during the night and or the morning, mumsnet aibu.

DS comes home quite moody. He's 9. He's quite rude to me and his grandma but nothing unreasonable. Anyway, during dinner I ask him if I can check something with him I was going to ask if he wanted dessert. He rudely says 'No you cannot'. So I said fine and just didn't offer dessert. Anyway DH witnessed whole thing.

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Find cleaning advice from other Mumsnetters on our Housekeeping forum. I have an upstairs neighbour who keeps watering her plants and the water goes on my balcony. She has so many plants, some even hang over the balcony. One dropped the other day and all the mud was on my door and balcony. I politely asked her if she could be more careful and sent her a picture and video. Her solution is that she will water the plants at 9pm tonight rather than in the day and she said "it's not against my tenancy. I've checked". Even though I didn't mention it. I've explained that regardless of whatever time she waters her plants, my balcony should never be wet as a result of this. This would mean I can't leave things on my balcony - remembering it's summer so its still fairly bright at 9pm. If she continues I'm going to take further action.

And who gave it out? Re uniform rules And on "break" Am I supposed to be ok with this?

He would rather stay home and watch tv all day. Is this a man thing? No, it's not a 'man thing'. We often went out as a family at the weekend, but also quite often DH would take DD out alone while I got on with the gardening or whatever. She's grown up now but we still enjoy doing things together when we can. Not man thing per se. I know lots of dads that aren't like this.

We also learn that there was another man in her life, Alex David Fynn , who she did passionately love, but who came to a violent end in a freak accident involving his duffle coat and some train doors. Poor Nic has terrible flashbacks about the incident, which leaves her screaming in country churchyards. Then Nic bonds with a new arrival in the neighbourhood, the single mum Jen Selin Hizli. Their kids play together, and the pair discover a shared dislike about everyone else in the village. Drinks are arranged.

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We have a great small circle of friends. Six of us we are three couples. My husband knew them from high school and I've been in the mix for the past 10yrs. I don't get to do much. I have no down time. They have been really lovely and popped over to walk the dog a couple of times in the least year since I couldn't get out with all three children. They do always say 'we are here if you need us just ask'.

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See all. Please create an account or log in to access all these features. OP posts: See next See all. Am I actually filthy?! I agree that 9 pm watering is a good compromise. People end up posting asking for advice in AIBU on sensitive topics because they get no response in the correct topic. Customise Getting started FAQ's. Could he be struggling with how to help you? DS 2 only wants to sleep on me 8. I do agree though. You can make sure to bring any laundry in by then. To want my husband to say something about MIL's comments So I said fine and just didn't offer dessert. What changes in your life would make a difference.

Famous for its self-effacing tone, Am I Being Unreasonable? Regular themes include bridezillas, bad parking, how many toddlers in a cafe is too many toddlers in a cafe, and whether or not to leave your husband because of how he stacks the dishwasher.

Please create an account or log in to access all these features. I got to know other parents that was and made some good friends. Well no she shouldn't be having men in her bed if they kids are getting in half way through the night. This would mean I can't leave things on my balcony - remembering it's summer so its still fairly bright at 9pm. KatBurglar would you suggest I do not talk to him today and rather sort out the issues myself in the way you just suggested via diary? I'm guessing that he has a woman stay overnight in his bed when he has the kids too so they are being exposed to someone who might not be around very long. It does take time to build connections, make friends, etc, but getting started is a great step. Please create an account or log in to access all these features. For desktop support. Start a new thread Flip thread Hide thread. Within the first week. This is insane.